Soul Ties and Love

Soul Ties and Love

Our God is a God of Love- in fact, He is Himself IS LOVE ( I Jn 4:8,16) He is the author of all genuine love and desire nothing more for all his creatures to walk in His perfect, pure love. Cutting soul ties does in no way mean reduces or destroy love. See His command and the way to express true love. “Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth the spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart” (I Pe 1:22)  Love covers multitude of sins (Jas 5:20; I  Pe 4:8). It is as strong as death, and it always seeks best for the other person. (SS 8:6; I co 13:4-8). Many of the greatest inventions and ventures on this place were done because of love. Love is God’s design for this world and for you. Love will always lift up and bless both the persons involved.

                Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one, because they have good reward for their labour; for if they fall one will lift up his companion”. A soul tie, however, will make drown together with the other person. Imagine! What will happen is you are bound to a person that is falling? You will fall with that person! When both of you lay on the ground, how can you save that person? If you stand tall, however, you can easily lift up the other person!

                Just check your life. Do you have a soul tie with anybody? A very clear indication of a soul tie is when you get so worried you cannot even eat when that person is sick. When he or she just shows any small sign of disease, you are unable to sleep, and you debilitate your own body. If that other person is depressed, you yourself fall into deep dark pit of sadness and hopeless. How then will you be able to help that person when you destroy own heath?!?!

                Of course, if the Lord gives you a concrete burden to fast and pray, that is a different situation. I can understand it is not easy to eat happily when your loved one is sick, but your spirit must rise up and overcome. Only then, you will able to take care of yourself and also of the other person. This is impossible or at least extremely difficult where there is a soul tie. Here we see once again: soul ties are Satan’s tricky weapons to destroy your life while you think you are doing God’s will and loving with God’s love!!!

                Let me give you a revelation: Jesus loves you immensely that He gave His own life for you, but He never worries about you! The Father loves you so much that He gave His only begotten Son for you, He is never anxious or insecure concerning you. The Holy Spirit, your jealous Lover who made His permanent home in you loves you extremely, but He never forces or manipulates you. This divine agape kind of love can freely flow through you! You can be a little Jesus to your world!

                There is a very clear distinction between God’s love and compassion and these ungodly soul ties. God so loved the world that He Gave His only Son (Jn 3:16)! God didn’t sit in heaven and worry and cry about the pitiful state of His creation-He Acted! God’s love and compassion stands tall and acts! Jesus was filled with compassion and HEALED sick (Mt 14:14). He didn’t just sit with them to lament and comfort them, “you poor sick little thing”! Love is action! Faith works through Love (Ga 5:6)! Love allows and empowers you to heal and change the circumstances whereas soul ties only drown you in the same prediction.

                We have a beautiful illustration of the danger of a soul tie from the field of swimming and life saving. In Germany, when we learn swimming we also get some theoretical and practical instructions on how to save a drowning person. It may sound quite cruel, but it is absolutely vital for the success of the operation. A drowning person will be so scared and in pain that he will cling with all his strength to the person coming to rescue.  What is the result? He will draw the other person under water, and both will drown. We are instructed therefore to place a very well direct hit on the drowning person’s chin to make him unconscious! The unconscious body will not cling to us or drag us down. The person can the easily be bought out of the water.

                Cutting soul ties is somewhat similar. It might seem cruel at the movement, but it defiantly saves lives and calling, just like a medical operation

--- From the Book of "HOW TO BREAK UNGODLY SOUL TIES" by Rev.Benita Francis Chemnitz

How are Soul Ties Formed - Part three

The third way soul ties are formed is by close association.

Soul tie with Close association

Very often, soul ties start in a very beautiful ‘spiritual’ way by praying or counselling together. How many homes have been destroyed by this subtle weapon of the enemy! Who has not heard stories of the ‘boss and his secretary’! Alas, even spiritual leaders have fallen prey to this special weapon of Satan. How easy it is to start thinking, ‘oh, my secretary is so much spiritual, she understands me so much better, she is so more interested and involved in my life...’! The poor wife is settling at home taking care of his children, washing his cloths, cleaning his house, cooking his meals, and when he comes home at night, he is too tired to talk to her. Without much intelligent conversion and no quality time and affection from her husband. She gets more and more frustrated, while her husband feels more and more attracted to the women in his office that share so many hours of his life and even occupational interests. The trap is perfectly set, the soul tie can develop, and the rest is sad history in so many cases all over the world.

Believers also face the same dangers. The vehicle the enemy uses to start with are soul ties formed between well-meaning believers! Even in churches, you need to as the Holy Spirit concerning each and every relationship! Is it pleasing to Him, or is it crossing any boundary in your thought life, in your time, in your emotions? Beware! Never allow the enemy of your soul to connect you too unduly to others by using spiritual appearances! Entrust your soul to the Shepherd and Oversee of your soul (I Pet 2:25). Set your full affection on Him, and you will escape the snares of the enemy!

Sisters, beware – even ministry can lead to soul tie. Pastors beware in counselling women! Never counsel alone with somebody from the opposite sex. As they open their soul expounding their problems and seeking counsel, very easily your souls can be knit together by soulish and emotional understanding and compassion.

Soul ties work in a hidden way to obstruct God’s plan for your life. They keep you bounded to people you might even have forgotten. Without even understanding why they feel so strongly about that person. Soul ties affect every area of your life.

Maybe you grew up very closely with somebody who is not a family member. Just to be safe side, better break the soul ties that could have formed! By breaking soul ties in prayer, you will not lose anything, but you might gain a greatest blessing and completely different, strife-free, easy-going relationship.

--- From the Book of "HOW TO BREAK UNGODLY SOUL TIES" by Rev.Benita Francis Chemnitz

How are Soul Ties Formed - Part two

Soul Ties with sexual contact

The second and instantaneous ways soul ties are formed is sexual contact.We see a clear example of that in the "Dinah-incident"in Gensis chap-34. Soul tie with sexual contact

1 Now Dinah, the daughter Leah had borne to Jacob, went out to visit the women of the land.

2 When Shechem son of Hamor the Hivite, the ruler of that area, saw her, he took her and violated her.

3 His heart was drawn to Dinah daughter of Jacob, and he loved the girl and spoke tenderly to her.

4 And Shechem said to his father Hamor, "Get me this girl as my wife.

The soul tie was established through this illicit sexual relationship. through these verses seem to show positive picture of love and kindness, we will see the disastrous outcome of it later on.

God's Word tells us, " Or do you not know the he who is joine to a harlot is one body with her?For 'the two,' He says ,"shall become one flesh"' (I co-6:16). In the western world with all its promiscuity, I have seen over and over again young people whose souls were scattered into pieces by multiple sexual relationships. If you still have a soul tie with somebody, even from fantasy relationship, you can never be truly happy in your marriage. Your spouse will always feel that there is somebody else in your life, and real trust just cannot develop.

I remember ministering in a village in Andhra Pradesh, India, some years ago. When I was asked to pray for the pastor and his wife who couldn’t have children, I saw in a vision another women standing between these two spouses. When I spoke out what I had seen, people were shocked. They said, “Sister, we wanted to keep it secret, but since the Lord Himself if shown you, we will tell you what happened. This pastor was married before and was not satisfied with his wife, so he just sent her away. The lady is his second wife!’ How tremendously real is the spiritual world!

This pastor had fallen in adultery and developed a soul tie with another lady. In order to marry her, he intended all kinds of complaints about his wife and finally sent her back to her parents. That man was in so much decapitation that he couldn’t even see how wrong and horrible his actions were! He felt completely justified and was sure to be in the will of God! All my words couldn’t convince him, but at last he agreed to attend one of my curse breaking sessions. One week later, he took a train and came to my meeting in another city. This time he was in tears and agony, having realized the horrors he had done! Soul tie had bought deception and curses on Him, and only after breaking these curses, he was again able to think clearly and to repent from his deeds. How much heartache and destruction can come through soul tie!

Maybe you experience sexual dreams or fantasies. That could have different reasons, among others unbroken legal rights through sexual sin in your forefathers. If your dreams and fantasies involve always the same person, however, you definitely have a soul tie with that person. Confess this lust as a sin, ask God’s forgiveness and cleansing of the precious Blood of JESUS., and the break any soul tie that binds you to that person.

--- From the Book of "HOW TO BREAK UNGODLY SOUL TIES" by Rev.Benita Francis Chemnitz

How are Soul Ties Formed

Soul ties are established mainly in three ways. By blood relation, by sexual contact and even by close association. The first sexual experience for a women creates an especially strong bond since in God's wise and perfect design, blood flows to seal the marriage covenant.

In rear cases, soul ties develop even by the so called "love at first sight". An example of that is found in the deep friendship and convent of David and Jonathan that began at first time Jonathan saw David. ( I Sa 18:1-4 )

Blood relationships
Because of that special ability in the blood, even the normal blood relationships in a family is one of the way soul ties are created. I personally know two people who were severely demonized by the death of a closue famaly member. In both cases, an uncle dies in their house, and both of them felt strong impact on their bodies as these demonic spirits left the dead body of their former host and took possession of their bodies. Such easy demonetization would not be possible without the vehicle of soul ties, in theses cases through the blood relationship, Remember, the life of the flesh is in the blood ( Lev 17:11)

Let me give you an example from my own life. When we were small children below ten years of age, my two cousins and me formed a "club" and made all kinds of vows to each other. It was just a children's play and soon forgotten by me - and yet, today I understand it did have an effect in the spiritual world. In this case, we were even blood relatives which made the soul tie even stronger.

When my cousin met her feature husband, I encouraged that marriage with all my heart. i prayed a lot for them - and yet, once they were married, her husband vehemently cutoff our friendship and relationship. He showed tremendous jealous and that none of us could understand. He would brand us as 'the holy cousins' and not even allow me to visit their home. I was extremely hurt since my cousin had been my best and closest friend since our childhood.

Some times later, the Holy spirit remined me of that vow we made in grandma's garden. I asked God's forgiveness and cancelled that covenant by the mighty Blood of JESUS. When I told my cousin about it, she said the Lord has shown her something similar when her first child was born. Unconsciously, her soul was still bounded to me , and she craved my approval more that anybody eles'e. Still in hospital, she prayed and cut herself free from that old covenant. something happend in the spritual world, Praise God!

Her husband has since then changed his behavior towards me ad my family in an astounding way, and my cousin is free to live the life God wants her to live without comparing herself with me. For me, cutting that soul tie made is easier to forgive her husband for separating us so fiercely.

may be you experience such uncomprehensible hatred and rejustice from somebody. I encourage you to pray and find out is a soul tie could be the reason behind it. It might be a soul tie through blood relationship or a covenants. Many people make covenants, even blood covenants, to form something clubs or secreat societies. Even if it was only child play, better insert their names and breat any soul tie that might have developed.

For more about soul tie and curses through the blood line or other relationships, please refer to my self-help manual "How to break Cruel Curses" ( available at www.ezekiahfrancis.org). You will find many helpful instructions on how to destroy Satan's previously undiscovered hold over your life and family.

--- From the Book of "HOW TO BREAK UNGODLY SOUL TIES" by Rev.Benita Francis Chemnitz 

What is Soul Ties?

Note Before start reading about this topic of SOUL TIE, it is very important to know understand the very relation of spirit, soul and the the physical existing world, the way our emotions of love and care towards a person can easly turn to an entrance gate or a channel to unseen ungodly evil spirits enter and effect our spiritual life and relation with JESUS..
If you are reading about this topic for the very 1st time, You should know that its God's will for you to know this.. Read this carefully and follow all the topic regarding soul tie.. correct your ways and be a child of God with true freedom in JESUS.

UNGODLY SOUL TIES

Soul ties are very important vehicles fr demos and curses to be transmitted. They open up your life to the enemy of your soul to usurp authority over your relationship and make them stertorous and taxing. They bind two persons together in an unhealthy, addictive way. They force behaviors the person would normally not show. A soul makes it impossible or at least immensely difficult for your spirit to take control. Soul ties are Satan's tricky weapons to destroy your life while you think you are doing God's will and loving with God's love!!! Soul ties make your life miserable and will even try to drag you down to the gates of death!
Soul ties make you unable to minister to that person you r soul is bounded to. You won't even correct wrong behavior. Only to the extent you are free from Soul ties you can bless people. Soul ties block God's river of living water from flowing through you to the people. You will only be able to help others on a soulish level-crying,feeding,taking care, and pampering that person-but that never really helps. True help is possible only on a spritual level, and that level s blocked when a soul tie is present.


When the spirit is in control of any relationship, soul and body submit to it. However, when the spirit is overruled by the soulish attachment between the relationship and has entered dangerous ground. Any undue mending together of mind, will and emotions is a soul tie. Our God is a jelous God who requires us to love Him with all our heart, soul, mind and strength MK-12:30. A Soul tie can hamper your relationship with your creator to the extent that that person's approval or disapproval can become important to you than the very will of GOD!


WHEN TWO SOULS ARE KNIT TOGETHER, THEY OFTEN EXPERIENCE THE SAME THINGS ALTHOUGH THEY ARE MILLIONS OF KILOMETERS APART. Science still studying the mystery of identical twins. Even is they lost contact with each other for many years, experience shows that they usually go through same incident at the same time. That is a clear indication f a strong soul tie through inheritance.


Though the exact expression "soul tie" is not found in the Bible, The comcept is seen alover. We are spirit beings, and we ought to love one other in spirit and in truth ( Col-1:8, Jn-318, II Jn-1, III Jn-1) of course, the Bible commands you to love with a frevent love, but this fervent love begins in the spirit and should not be overpowered by the soulish realm (I P- 4:8)


What is a Soul tie? What does it have to do with family or marriage relationship? Let us have a closer look at Leviticus 17:11. in this verse, we see thric the same Hevrew word 'nephesh', a word with many menings. It denotes 'soul, self, life, creature, person, appetite mind, living being, desire, emotion, passion',11 For the life(nephesh) of a creature is in the blood, and I have given it to you to make atonement for yourselves (nephesh) on the altar; it is the blood that makes atonement for one's life(nephesh).


We could therefore say that the very essence of our being, of our earthly life and character, is in the blood. When God breathed the breath of life into Adam's nostrils, Adam became 'a living soul, a living nephesh. (Gen-2:7) The Blood has a great significance and carries specific characteristics of very person. Thorough studies must be done before giving blood transfusions because blood is not only distinguished in group A,B and O, but also Rhesus factors and other factors mus considered. If yu have allergies, for example, you are not to allowed to donate blood because these allergies would be transmitted by your blood into the receiving person. AIDS, malaria, Filaria and myriads of other diseases are transmitted by blood contact.


Somehow, also demos seem to find blood suitable vehicle for their evil powers Have you ever wondered why satanists must drink human blood and animal blood in their inauguration into witchcraft?!
Why are blood sacrifices so important in sorcery?! Why is blood shed to give legal rights to demos?! Why would God make the Holy Blood of His own Son the redeeming agent for the entire world?! There are still many diving secrets to uncover about the importance of blood!


--- From the Book of "HOW TO BREAK UNGODLY SOUL TIES" by Rev.Benita Francis Chemnitz